A Love that Frees

In great relationships, our desire for autonomy and closeness are not seen as oppositional or contradictory, but as dance partners.

The more fully you are yourself, the more your partner can also rise in their sovereignty and vice versa.

Practising the art of closeness without fusion and distance without disconnection, we can find joy in the spaces between us and freedom through our intimacy.

This is the dance of awakened partnerships, whose steps bring us closer to not only each other but also to the different aspects and parts of ourselves. Without intimacy with who and what we truly are, there is no real intimacy with our beloved in flesh.

The more deeply I get to know myself, the more deeply I can relate to and feel my partner. The more deeply she knows herself, the richer our love together, and vice versa.

The challenges and pain inherent in such closeness and authenticity are not seen as problems, but truly beautiful gifts of our relationship - gifts that kick our butts so fiercely and lovingly that we cannot help but heal, grow, and awaken.

This is not freedom from relational hassles or suffering, but freedom through challenges and pain. Transformation through intimacy.

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