The Gifts of a Demanding Partner
A demanding partner will annoy, frustrate, challenge, encourage, support, and love you all the way to wholeness. She will settle for nothing less than the full you. He will see right through your insecurities and fears.
A truly demanding partner will not put up with your self-deprecating inner talk, but will ask that you confront and beat your inner critic. A truly demanding partner will not be enamored by your potential, but will ask that you embody your gifts here and now.
A demanding partner is both the best and the worst thing that can happen to you.
She will watch your old patterns die and celebrate your continuous rebirth. He will cherish your emergence into a creature of deep strength and true power. A demanding partner will dance with you around the fire of your emotional armouring gently melting down.
A truly demanding partner will never settle for half of who you are. He wants to feel both your earthiness and vulnerability. She wants to drink up your fire and bask in the tenderness of your beautiful heart.
A demanding partner is not one who tries to shame you into changing - he is not interested in control. She will not play mind games with you. Her anger will be direct and non-aggressive. His assertiveness will express deal-breakers perhaps, but never ultimatums or threats.
A demanding partner is fierce love embodied. They will neither force you nor stick around for too long if you’re not interested in going with them to the depths of what love can be.
Becoming a demanding partner takes much courage for their deep strength and willingness to be with a full partner are often forged in the fires of painful heart-breaks and relational dissatisfaction. A demanding partner has paid the price of finding out who they are and what they want in a relationship. They’re really going for it in their romantic lives and nothing can stop them.
If you’re interested in your deepest healing and growth, then a demanding partner becomes your blessing. They will continuously call forth the best in you and support and love you as you face your less than mature patterns and heal your most painful wounds.
If you’re looking for a life partner with whom you can discover what life is really about, then you need not look any further. Your relationship with a demanding partner becomes your greatest teacher. Everyday can be full of wakefulness and gratitude as together you plunge into a love that can illuminate more than you can imagine.
A demanding partner is hard to find and even harder to keep. If you happen to be with one of them, don’t miss this wonderful opportunity. They are the best and the worst thing that’s ever happened to you.
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